New Beginnings.

So my past posts have been just some advice,and some tips and some stuff about me. But I am going to change that. So now, I will post something everyday. A sentence describing my day, and sometimes why I choose that sentence. So here it goes.

Hugs are sometimes meaningless, but other times there is a deeper thought into it. But at the worst oftimes, to one person it's meaningless and to the other it is deeper.

That's what I had to go through today. He gave me a hug and I felt so much. But I bet to him it meant nothing. It was just another day with another friendly hug. I just wish for once things would go my way...but it looks like they wont be.

Is that even possible?

You know, its been a while since Ive thought about "him". And I didnt exactly plan to think about him until I was old and wrinkly and reflecting back on my life. So I was walking out of the lockerrooms, towards my next class when I see him and his so called buddies. I thought nothing of it until I saw him smile. At that moment I felt like I was back in that deep dark pit. He had gotten his braces off and his already amazing smile just got more amazing. Just one smile and he can melt my heart. How fair is it to have that kind of power over someones heart?! It pains me to think that I actually had a flashback to my old feelings. I cant describe it to you. Its like, making the same mistake twice. It sucks. And girls, Im sorry to let you down, but I have no advice on how to not fall back in the same hole. How to never have feelings of any kind for that particular person ever again. Theres nothing you can do but hope, hope really hard that you dont fall for them again.

It's all good.

Nobody know where love is found, how it is found, or even why it is found. All we know is, that it is found. Sometimes love plays tricks on you, making you think your in love, when in reality, your not. But other times people find their other half, a door to their key. Thats all I want. And there was a time when i thought i did find the other half of my heart. But I was wrong. And it was too late. I had fallen too deep down that spiraling hell hole. I tried to grip on to the slippery walls of that hole, but it was no use. I was at the pit. In pitch dark. With no one by my side holding a ladder and candle. Everytime I thought about him I got the chills. I thought I was in love. How wrong I was. Then one day I took a step out into the light. And really looked at my sitution. All I had to say was...WTF. I am not in love. And this boy, he, he isnt what I think he is. He isnt the sweet, innocent, sensitive, shy guy I thought him to be. In reality hes just an asshole like every other guy. It took me a couple months, but I got over him. Now I look back and I think that maybe I was in a dream during that time. Because I didnt want to see the truth. I just wanted to see what I wanted. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. And I want to help you get over him.

Getting over him.

• See the flaws in him. See the reasons why you should get over him. (too short, weird voice, etc.)
• Dont mention him at all anymore. Dont say his name. Dont think his name.
• If anyone brings him up, say something like I dont know, ok, or I dont care, and change the subject.
• Hang with friends, do something fun to get your mind off him.
• Find a cute celebrity to occupy your mind.
• Dont try to impress him anymore, hes not worth it.
• Dont look at him, if you feel like your about to sneak a peek, force your head between your hands.

That girl has changed you, and you don't even know it.

I am going to tell you a sad story which hopefully all you guys out there will learn from. So there is this guy named "Mike". And "Kaylee" likes Mike. Mike and Kaylee's best friend Suzzy wanted to play matchmaker. So Suzzy asked Mike what he thought of Kaylee, and he said she was "hot". From that point he knew Kaylee liked him and he liked Kaylee back. It took about 3 months but one day Mike asked Kaylee out, as a result of "Natalie" yelling at him to ask her out. Kaylee said yes of course and she was elated. But you see, later that day Mike never said anything to Kaylee. Kaylee waved to him but Mike was too busy with his friends. Mike has no idea how to be a good boyfriend. He just has no idea at all. He doesnt care either. To him Kaylee is just an "item". Something he posesses. Like a bike or t-shirt. Soon enough Kaylee is going to get tired of this and break up with him. But poor Mike has no idea what is coming for him. So please "Mike" if you read this, take the advice I am about to give.

How to be a good boyfriend.

• Please pay attention to her!
• On holidays don't get her clothes, she might not like your style. Candy, accessories(necklaces, earrings, something simple though), and other stuff like cute phone cases or scarfs and hats are good too.
• If you really do love her, then make sure she knows it, every day.
• Listen to her stories intentfully, she needs to know she can always talk to you.
• Build up your trust, dont hide anything from her, if you do, it will come right back in your face.
• Always be the first one to call or text after school work or whatever.
• If its cold outside and shes cold, give her your jacket.
• Dont EVER be embarressed by her around your friends.
• She wants protection, but not too much, so dont over do it.
• Be with her as much as possible.
• Dont blow her off for your friends, so not cool.
• Make her your #1, make sure she always come first, before your friends especially.

Breaks my heart.

All of you boys and girls out there looking to impress a special someone, here are some tips.

Tips for Guys Impressing a Girl.

• DON'T make fun of her, it really doesn't work.
• DO compliment her, but nothing weird, or else she'll think you like guys.
• DON'T talk about her friends around her, she'll think you like one them instead of her.
• DO hug her when she says hi.
• DON'T ask her out until your positive she likes you back.

Tips for Girls Impressing a Guy.

• DON'T talk about girly shows (The Hills, America's Next Top Model etc.), they don't care.
• DO act interested when they tell you a story.
• DON'T flirt with other guys while he's around, he'll think your not interested.
• DO wear bright clothing to catch their attention.
• DON'T pretend you know what your talking about, they'll know, trust me.

Were just ordinary people.

Hi there. I am writing this blog to help all of you with love troubles. I will give you the Do's and Dont's of dating. Ill teach how to impress a girl. How to impress a guy. How to be a good girlfriend/boyfriend. And all that other good stuff. People come to me when they need help, so now im here to help you. Got any questions? Comment :).